So my new strategy is

Not to give a damn. I've tried with several girls and all thats happened is that I get led along for months and then they pretend like nothing had been going on between us. So now I plan on being concerned with me and me only. I shall become a self centered bastard.

yeah that works so well for me

enjoy not getting laid

No... that thing you do is called douchebaggery.

you've never even met me in real life

Would you really be that much different?

you actually think I go up to random people, call them all stupid, and then leave laughing?

You might.

Cghost wrote:

you actually think I go up to random people, call them all stupid, and then leave laughing?

I could imagine you doing that.

Cghost wrote:

you actually think I go up to random people, call them all stupid, and then leave laughing?

I'd buy you a soda if you ever did that to someone if I was around.



Anyway Cghost is right. Being yourself and being that type of person that cares mostly only for yourself and doesn't try for a girl will succeed in you not getting laid and being viewed by girls as someone to not go after because you're fine with yourself being by yourself. It really is somewhat helpless, trying for them gets you no where (and girls love to be teases around guys they've put in the friend zone just to fuck with them), but not going for them gets you no where.


I've seen it done at a party, one of my friend's was basically "friend zoned" by the girl he liked even though they were always together and if you looked at them as a total stranger you'd think they were a couple, but all she would do was flirt with him and then when he tried for her, she'd turn him away, play the friend card and say she's not interested by anyone. So at the party, buzzed, he starts to flirt with another girl and actually gets her number, leading to the girl he liked getting jealous and flirting with him hard all night in front of the other girl, giving him mixed symbols while telling the other girl to back off, he's taken. The next day, she denies all of it, blames it on being drunk and says that she'd only do that with him because he's a nice guy and wouldn't take advantage of her...

Luckily, 2 weeks later the dope wised up and cut ties with the girl entirely.

the dope should have smoked some dope and put the blunts out on that bitch's forehead.

Loxxikus wrote:

No... that thing you do is called douchebaggery.

If that was true he'd be covered in chicks. Chicks love douchebags for some reason.

Thats true. I have no idea but all the major douchebags, dickheads etc seem to get all the chicks flocking to them no matter what they look like. Nice guys like me who give a damn usually get ignored or friend zoned.

yah when u want someone in your life, they arent there and when u are attached , that seems to be when they are wanting you. lol

My new strategy still fails me but I'm not really interested in women at the moment.

thats a good stagedy actually lol
thats when you will have the woman after ya

wow i need sleep lol
horrible spelling on my half there

Some aren't even worth the trouble. Hell, most probably aren't.

I'm not even dating this girl. We're nothing. Nothing at all... but this fucking girl flips out at me all the time over stupid shit. I was on the phone with her tonight and I say "I guess I'll see you tomorrow." And she starts with this whole "Well, fine then. I guess you don't want to talk to me."

"You said you were tired and you want sleep."
"I'm only halfway home. You could talk to me."
"Okay, then. What do you want to talk about?"
**roughly a minute of silence**
She starts saying something about her dumbass friend and repeats that she's tired.
"Yeah, I guess so. You had to work."
"Why do you have to be so difficult?"
"What?"
"You're acting like you don't even want to talk to me."
"What I say is what I mean. There are no hidden messages in what I'm saying."
"Ugh! Why do you have to be so difficult? You know what? Bye!"
**She hangs up**

What the fuck is that? Seriously.

lmao
i call it humurous

Women are a confusing bunch. Most expect us to be able to read their minds to know exactly what they want.

Yeah... like I said... I'm not even dating this girl. We're not really even friends. So I'm not playing any stupid games with her.

Shit would be way easier if chicks just said things straight out instead of playing head games and expecting us to know what's going on.

Yeah... I just wanted to point out she was the one being difficult and just starting shit just to start it... but whatever.

If she is anything like the women I've dealt with of late then her starting shit probably has several different layers of meanings.

You mean she likes me and such? Oh, I already know that. She's informed me.

So she didn't really talk to me today. I just tried calling her and she didn't answer. Oh well. I don't care to play these stupid games.