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Cghost wrote:

I don't have any friends

aw, that's sad. but you do strike me as a very solitary type person, so it probably doesn't even bother you too much.


and loxx--i don't think i'm too good for anyone, really.

if you're saying I like to alienate people...then yes

haha that's not exactly what i was saying


like, my brother is a very solitary person. it's not that he pushes people away so much as he just never lets them get close in the first place. he just prefers to be alone most of the time.


i WISH i were like that

it's not all it's cracked up to be

really?
my constant need for people is pretty damn annoying--especially considering i can't ever find the right people and whatnot.

actually I do like it alright except I never get laid, if that happened once in a while I'd probably be happy...probably

I can't imagine having a constant need for people

i can't imagine having a constant distaste for people

or well. i sort of can.

they make hookers for people like you, hun.

I refuse to pay for sex or I would have already

hahaha

that's a pretty good rule of thumb for you.

maybe you should loosen up a bit so someone can feel close enough to you? OR find some girl who doesn't have the whole emotional attachment connected to sex and go for her. but never, EVER pay her.

I could probably start by actually talking to someone in a bar instead of just drinking and playing pool by myself lol

that would be a nice first step.
take a wingman.

a what?

wing-man.... however you'd type it.

some guy who can help you scout some girl out, boost your confidence, start a conversation, etc.

I might rather get a hooker than have to get one of those.

ahahaha it's usually just a good friend who would probably go to the bar with you anyway

oh I have one of tthose. He was trying to do that for me one night kind of, but it turned into him wanting me to hit on every chick he thought was hot, which is bad because we both look for way different things in women. I eventually got irritated and told him to shut up before I knocked him out. It was a pretty good night.

that sounds pretty hilarious...

well, you could just pick a girl out and ask him about her and for help or whatever... instead of having him pick them out for you.

he's actually way more inept with women than he thinks he really is. I have no idea how he's engaged.

well, then i think i'm out of suggestions for you.

except just to go out there and do it yourself.


which would be cool if i could follow my own advice. [except i don't want to pick up a girl]

I had planned on doing it myself eventually. My biggest problem is I have no desire to really. I don't know if it stems from lack of confidence, because I really don't feel not confident around women, or if I really am just that apathetic.

don't feel not confident around women? or don't feel confident around them?

you have a desire for the sex with no strings attached, i guess.

I don't feel not confident, I can't think of the opposite of confidence right now

okay. just making sure i'd understood correctly.

well, then you probably are just apathetic.

I might just be stupid

well, you said it. not me.

i'm pretty stupid, myself.